Saturday, October 17, 2009

reflection from part of my journey at SSD

Hi there SSD family - and OMA (smile) Kinsey - thanks for doing this. Hey - who got a snack at 10:30 this morning!! Hope you are all doing well and reentering life at home! Miss you all.

here is the entry as I had posted on my blog:
I woke up this morning - at the same time I woke up all week in Colorado Springs - but I didn't need to grab my binder, my notebook and most of all my Bible..... at least not for class. School of Spiritual Direction - who would have thought that it would have been so incredibly hard but so incredibly wonderful. I think I have already begun to mourn the fact that I have had to say good-bye to our "little family of SSD class 33" who were in intense relationship last week - that we would grow to love one another and become a "community" in the true sense of the word. A community that Dr. Larry Crabb talked about in one of the books we read prior to going - Becoming a True Spiritual Community. Honestly, I think every person, every church board of elders and councils and whatever else church leadership teams call themselves - this should become a MUST READ.

It really doesn't matter if you . . .

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5 comments:

  1. Joy,
    thanks for your post. I agree with your thought regarding True Spiritual Community being a must read. It is hard to imagine being in a leadership position without appling these principals ..... Having experienced two churches that 'lead' with legalism I found that it is not a good place to be when you are in a crisis.

    Thank you for sharing with me your Red Dot with me the other evening after dinner. I see in you a kind and gentle spirit that will serve you well as you travel thru the pain and struggles you are facing with your family.

    Ron

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  2. Wow, this is the first time I ever blogged! I really want to stay in touch with everyone. I have had several opportunities already where people close to me have shared difficult journeying realities. Like Ron wrote elsewhere - I don't want to fall into old habits. Rather, I want more of God! Now I sit and listen and admit my inadequacy to God, and beg Him to help me connect with the people I love!I wish I could say I have had amazing conversations. Not yet.....

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  3. I'm new to blogging too. It was so good to be with you all, and I do want to stay in touch as much as possible and share in your journeys from afar. I am not yet back in England but enjoying the beautiful fall colours in Pennsylvania.
    I have been in a situation since leaving the SSD where a friend shared her family situation and the difficulties in her life and I so longed to be able to make it a 'conversation that mattered.' But although I was curious and concerned about her she was not curious enough to ask me for input, so I just sat and listened and prayed. There will be another opportunity tomorrow - with someone else - and I am praying that I will be able to really connect with a precious young woman in need, and that the Holy Spirit will be in complete control. It is a learning curve isn't it? So much to learn.

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  4. By the way, I have read the book on the church that Larry gave us all - it is an amazing book and I have started again at the beginning already. Should keep me well occupied for the seven hours flying back across the Atlantic on Wednesday.

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  5. Ruth,
    I was struck by the power of what you wrote ....

    "Now I sit and listen and admit my inadequacy to God"

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